I am not sure how qualified I am to write this blog post because I am not married but its been a thought burning in my heart since I started a new devotional titled 'sex, purity and the longings of a girls heart'. As I've read and meditated on it, it's become more and more … Continue reading One Lover, One Loved
Category: Love and Relationships
Always seen
My commute to work in the last couple of weeks has been very interesting. I have insisted on walking rather than taking the bus because asides the extra time for meditation while I walk, I also often walk past a school which always gives me something to chuckle about through the entire day. If it … Continue reading Always seen
Our wedding party
I have vivid memories from my sisters wedding, sometimes I could be doing the most random thing and a memory from that day comes to mind and I smile, laugh or cringe. If you’ve been to family events, whether weddings, birthdays, reunions or even burials, particularly if you’re of the African decent, you’ll know that … Continue reading Our wedding party
Divine reminders
About 2 months ago now, someone left me a message on Twitter, it was a long message and as I read, I already began to hear the Holy Spirit tell me to take it seriously. It was just half of the story written there and the person was to send a vn detailing the rest … Continue reading Divine reminders
But (s)he’s not God
I got a glimpse of making your partner your God a few weeks ago. I can be quite the opposite of a needy partner but in those days, I was extra sensitive and very needy and so I was hurt much more because I placed unrealistic expectations on him without even communicating them at all. … Continue reading But (s)he’s not God
Married with distance
The closer I get to God and the more I get to know Him, the more I realise that love was never made or intended to be distanced. On the contrary, it was made to thrive in close proximity, in very deep levels of intimacy. This is one of the reasons why I often tell … Continue reading Married with distance
“My healing will finish there”
I don't know if you have ever been talked into something to the point where you even started to consider it even though initially you were completely against it. My friend had been encouraged to get married in his early 20's, everyone advised him, well, it did not happen, mid 20's, it only intensified, 'Get … Continue reading “My healing will finish there”
Banging for others
Earlier today I got a notification from a friend on Twitter, opened it to find a plea to get on Instagram to comment someone's name under a post to win an opportunity. I did not even know who this person was but on account of my friend who reached out, I went through the hassle … Continue reading Banging for others
Long coloured braids
Honestly, some people just need to be given room to grow. You as well, need to be given room to grow. People fear growth sometimes, particularly mentally because they don’t want to be seen as inconsistent and double-minded. But they are actually two different things because we are actually expected to grow and evolve as … Continue reading Long coloured braids
Name = Nature
Something really funny happened in high school a few years ago. One of the hostel mistresses had done something really uncalled for and she would not let me explain so I snapped at her and I told her that if she would not listen to me, I will also not listen to her (I do … Continue reading Name = Nature
