I got a glimpse of making your partner your God a few weeks ago. I can be quite the opposite of a needy partner but in those days, I was extra sensitive and very needy and so I was hurt much more because I placed unrealistic expectations on him without even communicating them at all. … Continue reading But (s)he’s not God
Category: Love and Relationships
Married with distance
The closer I get to God and the more I get to know Him, the more I realise that love was never made or intended to be distanced. On the contrary, it was made to thrive in close proximity, in very deep levels of intimacy. This is one of the reasons why I often tell … Continue reading Married with distance
“My healing will finish there”
I don't know if you have ever been talked into something to the point where you even started to consider it even though initially you were completely against it. My friend had been encouraged to get married in his early 20's, everyone advised him, well, it did not happen, mid 20's, it only intensified, 'Get … Continue reading “My healing will finish there”
Banging for others
Earlier today I got a notification from a friend on Twitter, opened it to find a plea to get on Instagram to comment someone's name under a post to win an opportunity. I did not even know who this person was but on account of my friend who reached out, I went through the hassle … Continue reading Banging for others
Long coloured braids
Honestly, some people just need to be given room to grow. You as well, need to be given room to grow. People fear growth sometimes, particularly mentally because they don’t want to be seen as inconsistent and double-minded. But they are actually two different things because we are actually expected to grow and evolve as … Continue reading Long coloured braids
Name = Nature
Something really funny happened in high school a few years ago. One of the hostel mistresses had done something really uncalled for and she would not let me explain so I snapped at her and I told her that if she would not listen to me, I will also not listen to her (I do … Continue reading Name = Nature
To stay or walk away?
I think we’ve heard it said so often that no one is perfect, some people say it stating the reality of the human flesh we dwell in and some others just use it as an excuse to dismiss ill behaviours. Either way, a message is always conveyed, this message is that ‘another human will fall … Continue reading To stay or walk away?
Winning lovers
Following up from the last post, Failed love, I promised I would write a post opposite of that, which is “10 reasons why your relationship will win”. The things listed below are all things that we should commit to heart and always remember so we can have a flourishing relationship. God desires above all things … Continue reading Winning lovers
Failed Love <>
There was a post scheduled to go out on Valentine’s Day this year, but it never got out, I can’t remember why but looking at it now, I think I refrained from sending it out because I was more interested in people feeling loved than regretting their past love on that day. I had tagged … Continue reading Failed Love <>
“4 years down the drain”
I will always be in awe of God. Always. I’m lying in my bed but I can’t sleep because I keep thinking about how God chooses to connect dots that we often attribute to “coincidence”. I sat with a friend talking, we randomly remembered an event that led us to a couple and I remember … Continue reading “4 years down the drain”
