In Acts 1, we read of the method the disciples deploy to choose another disciple to replace Judas who had died at that point. The bible tells us they had two main options; Joseph and Mathias, and after they had prayed, the bible said they cast lots among themselves and the lot fell to Mathias, … Continue reading Unchosen & Unpicked
Category: Love and Relationships
Blame the 99
I recently came across a video on Instagram posted by a lady. The caption in the video was “Here’re the church members that supported me through my divorce”. The video showed only her smiling the whole time, which was to mean that there was no support from her church members through her divorce. The caption … Continue reading Blame the 99
Getting lost
Everyday I notice something new in me, funny that I can often trace it back to my husband. My mind has been influenced by living with him for almost three months now. I’m getting conditioned to what he likes and doesn’t like and I find that my brain has started to pick it up as … Continue reading Getting lost
My million dollar question
My most frequent and favourite question I get these days is “how has marriage been?” While I feel no pressure to respond to this question, I recognise that I get to be a placard and advocate for healthy Christian marriages in the large pool of horrendous news on what has become of marriages today. So … Continue reading My million dollar question
The Long Courtships …
Earlier this week, my partner and I would’ve been 5 years courting, if not that we got married a month ago! No, we didn’t plan to date or court that long, circumstances around us from the time we met to the time we got married necessitated that we waited that long to get married. Circumstances … Continue reading The Long Courtships …
Our Growth Strategy
Gods system is designed to grow the believer no matter the point we are in the faith, God seeks growth, one that is often evidenced in our relations to our neighbour, and not necessarily as individual entities, because the fruits of the Spirit are often tested in the midst of people and not always in … Continue reading Our Growth Strategy
The Wise, the Foolish and the Loved
Few things make me cry like an atmosphere filled with a tangible presence of the love of God. It’s so tangible you might be able to literally feel a presence around you. First time I experienced this was the afternoon I gave my life to Christ, the time I committed to walking intentionally with God … Continue reading The Wise, the Foolish and the Loved
Him & Her
I recently was invited to speak to a group of young women on Eros relationships and I had such an amazing time, I wanted to time stamp the notes I made for the event and also give more people access to this information hence why I have decided to make it a blogpost. Eros relationships … Continue reading Him & Her
Moments of truth – Once is enough
Of the many things I have been learning in my relationship with this imperfect-perfect human, my favourite has been trusting ‘the once’. In the past, I have been like Gideon, asking God for signs, proofs and confirmation after confirmation when He tells me to move. I’ve let fear, doubt or pure rebellion make me second … Continue reading Moments of truth – Once is enough
Scared soldier
I am always heavily burdened by a kind of news each time it arises, not because the news is in any way more grave than anything I have heard or could hear, more because I often think we would all have been warned hard and long enough about it. It is the strangest thing with … Continue reading Scared soldier
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