A few days ago, I went for an older friends birthday party, she recently got married earlier on in the summer and funny thing is that she is among the last in her friendship group to get married so imagine what this party was like, everybody coming in with their spouses, all cuddles and mushy, … Continue reading Moments of truth: The couples gathering
Category: Friendships
What our relationships need
God made us social and relational beings, it's interesting to know that no matter how introverted a person might be personality wise, they still desire and require a level of relationship and community with their environment and people in their environment. If God didn't make us so, we'll be lone wolfs, moving and doing things … Continue reading What our relationships need
Loud, Subtle Pride
Pride often is seen and talked about as an oblivious thing, most people talk and pray about it like they weren't aware when it was being displayed in their character, even when we pray about it, we hardly mention instances when we were proud, we tell God to 'Keep us far from pride', 'uproot pride … Continue reading Loud, Subtle Pride
Growing out of self – Conflict in the Church
At one point in my Christian walk with God, when I experienced disagreements and conflict with fellow Christians, I would seat and wonder to myself how it could be the same Spirit working in two of us, I would say to God, "if this person really has your Spirit in them, they should have known … Continue reading Growing out of self – Conflict in the Church
Moments of Truth: The Woman in the mirror
Sometimes growth is very glaring obvious and other times, it is quite subtle and not the most obvious thing, but one major thing with growth is that time always bears it witness, because over time, however quick or slow it comes, it is still evident, maybe first by people around and then by the person … Continue reading Moments of Truth: The Woman in the mirror
“Lets face reality”
I was speaking to a younger friend a couple of days ago over the phone. We were talking about something she had been battling with for a while and honestly, I felt like we were back to square 1, but hey, she didn't call me to remind her of that, but to encourage her even … Continue reading “Lets face reality”
Moments of truth; Sex slave
I was young and very naive, all I had was an Ethiopian best friend who I absolutely adored, asides from the fact that her hair was long and she was really pretty, she actually always really got me, as young as we were. Sadly, we don't talk anymore, in the last year, I actually tried … Continue reading Moments of truth; Sex slave
This Guy thinks we’re a joke
A lot of times, we read the bible at face value, we read it with a mindset of it being too sacred to be imagined and so while we get into the characters and lives of the people we read about in novels, I doubt people often do the same for characters of the bible … Continue reading This Guy thinks we’re a joke
Moments of Truth ; The man is just kind
I'm not too happy with how certain things turned out to be in our generation. I sat reminiscing on a conversation I had a few days ago and I was disappointed in myself, but even more, at the fact that there was every possibility that what I said was accurate. Of course i'll back track … Continue reading Moments of Truth ; The man is just kind
What Friend are you? Flowwww or Flow?
I realised that there are mainly two types of friends in this world. The “it has happened, it has happened, let’s move on” gang, and the “it happened, but you were wrong, you know better for next time” gang. On first glance, the first gang appears more understanding, accommodating and even more supportive and the … Continue reading What Friend are you? Flowwww or Flow?
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